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Don't Project a Sexual Identity Onto Little Kids  Don't Project a Sexual Identity Onto Little Kids 

A smiling infant boy is not a “ladykiller.” A toddler offering an adult a cookie is not a “flirt.” Literally nothing a baby does needs to be turned into a romantic moment, so let’s stop saying things that imply otherwise.

How to Stop Getting Absurdly Long CVS Receipts How to Stop Getting Absurdly Long CVS Receipts

CVS is famous for their ridiculously long receipts. If it bothers you to get the equivalent of a tree branch every time you buy gum, here’s how you can stop the madness.

Navigate a Friend Breakup Like You Would a Romantic Breakup Navigate a Friend Breakup Like You Would a Romantic Breakup

Like romantic relationships, friendships can end. We tend to treat the loss of a friend as a mere blip, but these splits are often just as painful. Let’s start giving friendship break ups the respect they deserve.

What to Do When an Earthquake Warning Goes Off What to Do When an Earthquake Warning Goes Off

California began using an earthquake warning system this summer that notifies citizens of seismic shifts coming to their area. In theory, that should give you a little time to prepare for the earth moving. Here’s what to do with those extra seconds.

How to Help People Affected by Hurricane Michael How to Help People Affected by Hurricane Michael

On Wednesday afternoon, the Florida panhandle was hit with Hurricane Michael. It began as a Category 4 hurricane, and was placed in Category 3 by the time it reached Georgia—unprecedented for the area. Powerful winds and rains are expected throughout Thursday and Friday through North Carolina.

How to Find Love, According to a Matchmaker  How to Find Love, According to a Matchmaker 

Though most of us don’t go so far as to hire an actual matchmaker in our quest for love, it should come as no surprise that if you’re looking for real, concrete advice on turning your luck around in the dating game, some of the best tips will come from the professionals. Alessandra Conti is a Celebrity Matchmaker at …

How Not to Fall Off a Cruise Ship How Not to Fall Off a Cruise Ship

First of all, don’t believe it couldn’t happen. It could.

Dating Might Get Better If We All Stopped Texting Dating Might Get Better If We All Stopped Texting

One of the most exciting notifications you can get on your phone is a new message from your crush/current bae. One of the most anxious feelings is waiting for that notification to come in. What if we just eliminated texting in relationships all together?

How to See the Draconid Meteor Showers Tonight How to See the Draconid Meteor Showers Tonight

The best viewing for the annual Draconid meteor shower is Monday October 8th—so, tonight—with the best visibility taking place in the early evening. Welcome, Fall showers.

How to Be Less Intimidating How to Be Less Intimidating

Have people told you that you’re intimidating and you just don’t know why? You may be giving off signals that say “don’t mess with me” without realizing it.

How to Cope When You Realize You're a Hypocrite How to Cope When You Realize You're a Hypocrite

Dang, it feels so good to be righteous about literally everything. So sure of your moral compass and belief system. No wonder people refuse to see their own hypocrisy. It ruins the high.

How to Help Victims of the Indonesia Earthquake and Tsunami How to Help Victims of the Indonesia Earthquake and Tsunami

On Friday, the Indonesian island of Sulawesi was hit by an earthquake of 7.5-magnitude, followed by a 20 foot tsunami. More than 1,200 deaths have been confirmed, and the city of Palu needs help.

Use Dating Apps While Traveling to See a New Place Use Dating Apps While Traveling to See a New Place

As a tourist, you always suspect that you’re getting a very tailored and commercial experience. Sometimes that glitzy, crafted stuff can be fun, but if you want more, there’s a great way to get it: go on a date with a local.

How to Get Your Time Back From a Workaholic Boss How to Get Your Time Back From a Workaholic Boss

There are many ways for a good boss to go bad, and one of those ways is a boss who doesn’t realize their own insane pace can’t be matched by their employees. There is hope, however, that you can reset boundaries.

What to Consider Before Proposing in Public What to Consider Before Proposing in Public

If you’re someone who is already planning a surprise public proposal, you might be in too deep to know that it’s probably not a great idea. However, if you’re willing to hit pause, maybe go through this checklist before arranging the flash mob dance.

How to Get Free 'Museum Day' Tickets How to Get Free 'Museum Day' Tickets

Every year, for one day, almost 1,500 museums across the U.S. open their doors to visitors at no cost. But you still need tickets.

How to Find Good Private Channels on Roku How to Find Good Private Channels on Roku

One benefit of the streaming player Roku is that it allows users to create their own private channels, sort of like how people can make playlists on Spotify. And like Spotify, many of these curated channels are bad.

How to Live in Your 20s, According to Women Over 40 How to Live in Your 20s, According to Women Over 40

There are some things you won’t understand until you’ve matured past your twenties and thirties and have the benefit of both experience and hindsight.

How to Prepare for the Unexpected Dangers of Flooding How to Prepare for the Unexpected Dangers of Flooding

Storms can destroy your home and level your neighborhood, but even after they pass, flooding presents unique dangers you might not be aware of. Even walking through water, it turns out, can kill you.

How to Help Hurricane Florence Victims How to Help Hurricane Florence Victims

Hurricane Florence has hit the North Carolina coast, already causing massive flooding in inland towns along rivers. Meteorologists are anticipating that Florence will linger and move further inland over the weekend, which means a lot of people are going to need rescue and relief. Here’s how you can help.

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